Patricia McMorrow | 09.20.17
While fighting a rare melanoma that has cost him his right eye, Gulf War veteran Thomas “Tomo” Riley of Hastings, MN, sometimes tapes a paper target with the word “c-a-n-c-e-r” scrawled in black ink to a backdrop in his garage. Then he takes aim with the laser sight on his Airsoft Machine Gun. As he opens fire, Tomo says, “You think you got me? You ain’t got me, man. I got you.”
Killing cancer is helping Tomo heal. “Cancer is one nasty animal,” he said. “Not everybody is going to win. But you have to keep that positive attitude, and tell yourself every day, ‘I am going to beat this. There is no way that I am going to succumb to this.’” Tomo said he has promised himself that he will not die from cancer: “That’s a promise I intend to keep.”
But cancer has put him through hell, starting one morning in February 2016, when Tomo woke up at 2:30 a.m. with his eye bulging out of its socket.
“I woke [my wife] Patty up in the middle of the night and ended up going up to the ER,” Tomo said. “That day changed everything for us.”
As his diagnosis was confirmed and aggressive treatment launched, Tomo had to take medical leave from his job as an installation and service technician for a satellite TV company.
Bills started piling up as he and Patty worked with the Department of Veterans Affairs to prove that Tomo’s cancer is linked to his service in the U.S. Navy, during Operation Desert Storm/Desert Shield.
In July 2016, it was determined that Tomo suffers from Gulf War Illness, a multi-symptom disease related to exposure to nerve gas. His eligibility for VA benefits was approved.
Patty wrote on Tomo’s CaringBridge website: “The VA will be giving him compensation for the rest of his life … We are both so relieved that one battle in this fight has ended, and we will now be able to focus all of our energy and prayers on the battle with this disease.”
The battle continues, with Tomo recovering after surgery in February 2017 to remove his cancer-damaged eye. For a man used to working 12 to 14 hours a day, healing at home is not always easy.
Tomo’s wife nudged the longtime musician to expand his repertoire, so to speak. “Patty said to me, ‘Hey, why don’t you start building guitars?’”
She ordered a kit for Tomo to “make a playable guitar from a pile of parts,” as he described it. From that, Good Medicine Guitars was born.
Tomo is now making guitars and basses for veterans, people with cancer and cancer survivors. “One of my biggest salvations in cancer recovery is having my music,” Tomo said. “This is giving that gift of music.”
Do You Know Someone Who Needs CaringBridge
Do you know a current or former military service member who could benefit from starting a CaringBridge site to keep loved ones updated on their mental and physical health? If so, share this link with them: caringbridge.org/military-service.
Start a Personal Fundraiser to Help with Expenses
During his health journey, Tomo used CaringBridge to update his family and friends and a GoFundMe campaign for financial support. CaringBridge has partnered with GoFundMe to allow families to easily raise money in times of medical need. You can either start a personal fundraiser directly from your CaringBridge site or link an existing GoFundMe campaign to your CaringBridge site. Let your friends and family know that you need their financial support through journal posts and direct them to contribute by going to the Ways to Help section of your CaringBridge site. Tomo received his cancer care at University of Minnesota Health. Thanks to leading cancer research backed by scientists at Masonic Cancer Center, University of Minnesota, Tomo had access to advanced care options for his rare cancer. As part of an academic medicine practice, University of Minnesota Health doctors also hold faculty positions at the renowned University of Minnesota Medical School.